Flirting With Married Women:
Why Waste Your Time?
o married women still flirt with men? And is flirting with married women a good idea for you to try?
The answer to the first question is a very definite yes!
Women crave male attention. It's wired into their nervous systems and therefore, they continue flirting after marriage in much the same way that you'd continue looking at pretty girls even after you're married. The two sexes are simply designed that way.
However, the answer to the second question (is flirting with married women a good idea?) is no. An obvious risk is that her husband will turn out to be in the vicinity and that she's flirting with you to make him jealous.
- If he doesn't get jealous, she'll interpret that to mean his feelings for her have faded.
- If he does get jealous, she'll interpret this to mean that he still loves her.
- And if he gets really jealous (such as by beating the stuffing out of you, for example), she'll interpret that to mean he's absolutely crazy about her.
Flirting with married
women? Don't bother
What's more, she won't feel constrained when she plays this game because it will be your nose and not hers that gets bloodied if hubby goes ballistic.
But even aside from the question of "Is it safe?", there's the question of "Is it a nice thing to do?"
After all, would you want other guys flirting with your wife if you were married? Certainly not! So why do the same to another guy? Odds are that he's just as decent a guy as you are.
However, life is seldom quite so simple
To reduce the chance that you'll wisely decline to play the game of flirting with married women, most married ladies you meet will not let on right away that they're attached. Otherwise, you're far less likely to make some kind of play for them and therefore reassure them that they still have considerable sex appeal.
After all, would you volunteer immediately and without prompting that you're married if you're on a long-distance business trip and meet a cute stewardess who seems charming and friendly? Even if you're 100% certain that you'll remain faithful no matter what temptation is thrown your way? Perhaps, perhaps not ... right?
“… the most candid thing would be to just ask straight away, "Are you married?" …”
It's the same thing with married women.
Of course, the most candid thing would be to just ask straight away, "Are you married?" But not all women (or men) will give an honest answer to that. And the very act of asking that question would certainly kill the ambiance, in any event. Therefore, there will always be some risk when flirting with married women.
That's the downside.
Q: But what's the upside?
A: There isn't one!
If a married woman is flirting with you just to make her hubby jealous, what's in it for you? At best, nothing! And at worst, a trip to the emergency room.
What's in it for you?
Even if she's flirting with you for her own ego gratification (thus proving to herself that she's still a desirable woman), what's in it for you? Again, nothing!
Let's be candid: you talk to new women you meet at least partly on the chance that the encounter may progress to the bedroom later on. Without that possibility, why waste your time flirting with married women?
There are plenty of single girls out there, so our own policy is to not knowingly flirt with the married variety. As there's no benefit to be gained from flirting with married women, why cause unnecessary pain for your fellow man and also risk an occasional beating?
To explore the best ways of meeting genuinely eligible women, please continue to the rest of our Flirting Tips For Guys section.
You can also return to the top of this flirting with married women page to re-read it if you need to do so.
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