Some Fun Date Ideas
These can be once a year or once a week, but if you can find something exotic like that in your area, it is likely to be an especially good choice for taking a date. Such events tend to have quite a party atmosphere and this should make it easier for both you and her to get into the spirit.
And if you're like many shy guys, you probably feel awkward on dinner dates because you have some trouble keeping the conversation going smoothly. If so, then one of the best fun date ideas is a physical activity date. Here are just a few of the possibilities:
Physical dates work well by getting your body (and hers) moving, they provide some structure and there are so many possible variations. If you're a real klutz (e.g. you can't stay on your feet for more than two seconds on skates) or are physically unfit, physical dates aren't the best fun date ideas. But if you can handle them, they offer numerous benefits.
And what we call libido dates are a special category of fun date ideas. These cover activities that are stimulating in a way that improves your chances for sex afterwards. In effect, the activity is a form of foreplay. We've found three activities that can have that effect on women:
There is something vaguely erotic to many women about riding horses. So if you're into riding, try it as a date idea. It's worked well for us.
The absolute best libido dates we've been on involved a club in a city we lived in some years ago: it offered female kickboxing every evening. A couple of waitresses would volunteer to get up on stage, get suited up with gloves and a small amount of padding in spots, and then try to beat the stuffing out of each other for three minutes. The winner was selected by crowd acclamation and got prize money.
We discovered that women can get more turned on by watching two other women beating on each other than from almost any other activity. As foreplay goes, it's marvelous. You could tell by looking around the room that every women there was "feeling it". And it wasn't unusual to have our dates tugging at our arm at the end of the match to suggest "Why don't we skip dinner and go back to your place? We can eat later."
The third "libido effect" venue is one we've learned about from our buddies: a shooting range. On numerous occasions, friends of our have taken women down to a shooting range to fire guns at targets. And they report that this also triggers a noticeable libido effect. However, we personally haven't tried this type of libido date as something about women getting excited firing guns gives us some pause, especially when the time came to break up with them. We're just reporting what we've heard on that one, thank-you.
Continue to the main Dating page for additional concepts and fun date ideas while learning more about other aspects of understanding women in relationships.
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