How To Seduce A Woman:
Handling "The Test"
nowing how to seduce a woman is largely an acquired skill. And because women are complex creatures - and no two are alike - it takes a great deal of learning and practice to master the many subtleties that can come into play.
But every guy has to start somewhere. So it makes sense to start learning how to seduce women by focusing on basic seduction skills first and then, over time, mastering the finer aspects of the game.
The easiest place to start learning how to seduce a woman is by identifying and then eliminating blatant "rookie mistakes". Those will very quickly knock you out of the running with all but the most desperate women.
the tests you'll get when trying to seduce women are more subtle than that
There are a number of such mistakes, but the one that catches the most guys involves failing "the test". The test? Most guys who don't know how to seduce a woman aren't even aware that there are tests during seduction.
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But there are. Not the "pencil and paper" kind that you remember from your school days, of course. The tests you'll get when trying to seduce women are more subtle than that.
In some tests, she'll make a statement that she knows you won't agree with
and then she'll ask if you agree. If you do, you fail the test: you're afraid of upsetting her by disagreeing with her (and no women gets turned on by guys who are afraid of her).
Here's an example:
She'll say something like, "I don't believe in sex before marriage
would you be okay with that?"
If she's dressed ultra-conservatively and otherwise comes across as being very straight-laced, then she may be telling the truth. But how often do you pick out straight-laced looking women to seduce?
Therefore, the odds are extremely high that she's just testing you. Here are a couple of possible ways for you to respond
1) Tell her "Sorry
that doesn't work for me at all. Good luck on finding a guy who'll put up with a one-way relationship" (said calmly and matter-of-factly while looking her straight in the eye).
2) Tell her "I really admire women who have strong principles" (said while you give her a dejected look so that she knows you wouldn't have a problem if she later decides to make an exception in your case).
so if your response is similar to the first one above, that tells her that you're a good catch.
Guys who have alternatives (because they're good catches) won't settle for platonic relationships. Instead, they'll move on to more promising potential partners. So if your response is similar to the first one above, that tells her that you're a good catch. That answer is correct.
Guys who are afraid of women will be reluctant to challenge her (and therefore possibly antagonize her), and that will tell her that he's not bed-worthy. So if your response is similar to the second one above, that tells her that you're not a good catch.
If you're looking to get laid (which you surely are or you'd not be trying to seduce her), that answer is incorrect.
It's not how to seduce a woman at all
A variation on this approach is for her to ask you to do something embarrassing (or, even better, degrading) to see if you'll do it. Why? Because that also works well to differentiate between "the guys worth having" and "the guys not worth having".
Guys who don't know how to seduce a woman won't recognize that this is another test and therefore they're apt to do whatever she asks (again, in the hope of not antagonizing her by saying "no").
Suppose the girl you're trying to seduce tells you, "I'll let you kiss me if you first kiss my dog on the lips." That's also a test - she's evaluating your reaction. And here are a couple of possible ways for you to respond
1) Tell her "Not a chance. I don't kiss dogs
the four-legged kind or the two-legged kind." (and then start getting up to leave).
2) Pucker up and plant a wet one on Fido's lips (and then wait expectantly for your "reward").
guys with any self-respect won't put up with that sort of treatment
Guys with any self-respect (and other seduction options) won't put up with that sort of treatment. But guys who are afraid of women won't want to risk antagonizing her and they'll therefore "follow orders" (no matter how inane). So if your response is the second one, that will tell her that you're not worth having. If you're looking to get laid, that answer is also incorrect.
And if you're looking to
learn more about how to seduce a woman, continue to the main Seduction page.